"Esperanto isn't a real language!"

Me explaining gender and transness in Esperanto to someone who doesn't speak English well: t.co/JYihlotBMO

Shit, I know queer words in Esperanto but what's the word for "cis" in Esperanto??

5 pm outside: dark.

my brain: ok time for bed. good night.

My husband walking past my office: "you look cool!"

Me just hanging out and eating chicken strips: t.co/Ujb9d3j30w

I can just buy one or two new shirts at a time and it doesn't have to be this big thing to budget for and buy clothes all at once. And it's so obvious, but I've just never done it before.

Running somewhere to pick up office supplies? Or storage stuff? Just pick up a shirt or two or something. No big deal.

It's so ingrained in me but today it was like I CAN SOMETIMES JUST BUY NEW CLOTHES WHILE OUT RUNNING ERRANDS. THIS IS A THING I CAN DO.

Finding clothes at a thrift store takes FOREVER. Look through all the clothes, try 'em on, etc.

Finding clothes at Kohl's is expensive. You're not gonna get that many clothes. Plus it's a special trip and like what else are you gonna do there?

Growing up, my family either bought all their clothes from a thrift store, or for "nice clothes" it'd be from Kohl's (and only Kohl's for some reason). We never bought stuff at Target or Walmart or whatever.

So in my mind, buying clothes is always this big thing you gotta do.

ok ok ok ok so like I just realized something that like, I've always found clothes shopping intimidating, but I literally just bought some clothes while at Target today during my dysphoria outing lol.

But for some reason it just hadn't occurred to me that it was an option:

I buzzed off a lot of my hair, and my husband helped me even it out. I can still wear it down for conservative places. I need to get new glasses tho, I am tired of these. t.co/uC80kkOJab

My mom NEVER let me cut my own hair before so I've always been afraid to but I've always wanted to.

UMKC was advertising to me on TikTok. Sorry but I'm not ready for more school debt I've almost paid off my debt from my BS degree there. 🙂 t.co/BUJaJar6MK

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