i wish mastodon/activitypub/whatever had a "no boosts" option, the option to turn off replies to a post (as in nobody can attach replies to it, not me not seeing their replies), and a "only show this to people I follow" option. the "followers only" option is fucking terrible
@aeva "mutuals only" would be extremely welcome, but… what's the problem with "followers only?" it feels sometimes useful to me
@glyph it's never the thing I need and when I pick it as the closest approximation visibility option it almost always backfires horrifically because i have 7,000 followers who are mostly not mutuals with one another and they can't see eachother's replies