As time goes on, i am more and more convinced i am neurodirevergent, but it's unclear in what way. (My wife is an educational psychologist and agrees with this).
Then again, i think just like the "there's no average pilot" story (https://www.thestar.com/news/insight/when-u-s-air-force-discovered-the-flaw-of-averages/article_e3231734-e5da-5bf5-9496-a34e52d60bd9.html), i don't think we can point at any individual and say "that is what neurotypical is".
Some of us have labels for some of our traits. Other traits don't have a label yet.
@demofox I have a bunch of traits that are typically attributed to neurodivergence, though when listening to stories of other neurodivergent people I realise that my situation is milder by orders is magnitude. Still, for a large part of my life I've been wondering whether I'm not neurodivergent or I was just extremely lucky for my whole life.